If you have known a girl for a while, then you already have a certain understanding of the girl. It will be much easier to chat with the girl at this time, because you know what topics the girl is interested in, and the girl is interested in what you know. People will be much less wary. So how do you start a conversation with a new girl?
1. Opening of listening and speaking
Open the chat directly with [listening and listening], wait until the girl replies to your message, and then send the next sentence
For example:
Boy: "I heard..."
Girl: "?"
Boy: "I heard you wanted to treat me to dinner ~”
Note: Difficulty★★
2. Expression opening
Expression The bag is a life-saving tool for most of our male friends. It would be great to find an expression that suits your own style as an opening.
It is recommended that you download a [Doutu] app. It is very convenient to use and you can also pay attention to it in daily life. Collect related emoticons
Note: Difficulty★
Don’t use overly cute, cute, flirtatious, or large-scale expressions, as these are not conducive to establishing a favorable image for yourself< /p>
3. Curious opening
This will create expectations for the girl, arouse the curiosity of the other party, and make the girl have a feeling of wanting to know what you are going to say next, which can effectively improve the performance of the girl. Response rate
For example:
“You look familiar, have you seen me somewhere?”
“It’s you!!... ..." (Describe the reason)
"Discover a characteristic of you"
Note: Difficulty ★★★
High returns and high risks, be prepared in advance Create a point of curiosity, otherwise the girl will have a bad impression of you after she finds out that you are actually being mysterious
4. Cold reading opening
The so-called cold reading is to make inferences by observing all aspects of the girl's performance. Her emotions and status
For example:
"If I guessed correctly, you must be quite popular."
"Have you ever been like this? ....."
(I am in an inexplicable bad mood, I don’t want to talk to anyone, I just want to be alone in a daze quietly)
(I feel irritable and can’t read anything. It’s not pleasing to the eye, and I feel bored, and I want to find an exit)
Note: Difficulty ★★★★★
It is recommended to use it after mastering it, otherwise it will make girls feel like You fool, if you need it, you can ask me for a cold reading routine to help you sort out your ideas
5. Question opening
There are various hot topics every day, such as celebrities, entertainment, fashion... Choose one of them as an opening statement to discuss with girls. It’s OK
For example:
“If you were the responsible person of the State Administration of Radio, Film and Television and asked you to choose between Zhang Yishan’s “The Deer and the Cauldron” and “The New White Snake”, which one would you miss? ?”
Note: Difficulty★★★
Try to avoid social news, current affairs politics, scientific and technological inventions and other topics, girls are more likely to be uninterested
6. Fugue opening
It is to give the other party a limited personality, quality, and behavioral characteristics
For example:
"Seriously, you You are willing to take care of others and be considerate of others. Such a good character. Nowadays, many girls don’t like to talk after adding friends. I don’t think you are such a girl."
Note: Difficulty ★★★★
Grasp the scope of the fugue. If the scope is too large, it will be difficult to expand the topic
7. Praise opening
No one likes to be praised, as long as the praise is sincere From the heart, such compliments can make girls have a good impression of you and help send a friendly signal to you
For example:
Has anyone ever said that you look good? A bit like Yang Mi and Liu Shishi...especially when you laugh
Note: Difficulty★★
Praise ≠ kneel down and lick, what does everyone think of themselves? There are too many to go too far
8. Information-related opening
Use your previous brief understanding of the girl as a clue to start Topic
For example:
"Your name is the same as one of my friends" (so you can simply talk about your friends)
"You She should be only 22 years old.” (The girl’s age is suitable for young)
Note: Difficulty★★
It must be based on the prepared information, otherwise it will be more embarrassing
In fact, it is not as difficult as imagined to start a chat with a newly added girl. Of course, boys also need to pay attention to some minefields of background and opening. Don't just say "Are you there?" and "Hello, beauty". Girls watch. At this point, they have no impression of you and may simply ignore you or block you directly.
