For many straight men, they think it is not very common for girls to come to visit their aunts. So many girls have experienced it. Why do many girls moan for no reason? Commonplace. Some boys are at a loss because they don’t know how to coax a girl’s aunt, which is not the right approach. Let me share with you how to make girls happy when their aunt is here?
1. Soothe the girl’s emotions
In fact, the reason why the girl’s aunt is here is not to say how painful she is, but because of the changes in hormones, which makes her emotional easily. , so you will feel that she is a bit capricious. At this time, if you can't understand the girl's emotions and feel that she is being unreasonable, then you are not talking enough. Give an example.
Female: "My aunt is here, and her stomach feels uncomfortable."
Male: "Drink more hot water, it should be able to alleviate your uncomfortable symptoms."< /p>
This is a typical wrong demonstration, because girls actually understand the truth. She also knows that she should drink more hot water, rest more, boil some brown sugar water, etc. Could it be that the girl told you that your aunt is here because she wants to Listen to these nonsense, he actually wants more of your care.
So how should we appease girls at this time?
After the girl’s aunt comes, the care she really wants is for the boy to know the girl’s needs and give her the warmth she needs. For example, buy her some brown sugar water and send it to her, help the girl with some housework (girls should not be overworked and do not touch cold water during their aunty period), help the girl cook some light meals... these are all better than your dry words. Water is much stronger.
2. Understand girls
Only girls can empathize with the suffering of girls’ aunts, and boys may not be able to understand it no matter how much they talk about it. What girls fear most is that boys say caring words but don't take it seriously in their hearts. This means that they fail to truly understand the pain of the girl's aunt. So how can we understand girls? For example:
"It's so hard for girls. Occasionally I eat the wrong things and my stomach feels very uncomfortable. What's more, it hurts like this. I can imagine how painful you are now, and it really hurts me."< /p>
This kind of understanding words can make a girl feel that you really understand her, so you will care about her from the bottom of your heart. . Girls can also find emotional relief from your understanding.
3. Accompany girls in action
After a girl feels that you can really understand her, she feels that someone finally understands her completely, then the next thing you have to do is take action Go spend more time with girls. For example:
Rush to the girl, talk to her, take care of herFor her, help her do things. Even if you don't do anything, it's a good way to comfort her if you can rush over and touch her.
It doesn’t matter if you can’t rush to the girl’s side to keep her company. You can also chat with her via video or language so that she won’t feel lonely and bored. A good way to accompany and comfort you.
