Actually, if a girl doesn’t want to talk, just leave it alone. Don’t spoil her. I want to say: She is very good, but you are also very good. You don't have to be so angry that you look at her mood and lick her face to express your feelings for someone you are not interested in. You can't give up your self-esteem and self-love at all to affect your career and distract expensive attention for the person you like. Let me analyze for you how to judge whether a girl wants to chat with you? There are three aspects to consider when judging whether a girl wants to chat with you.
1. Number of words in a girl’s reply
If a girl replies with a lot of words when chatting with you, it means that she is interested in your chat topic or you as a person, and she is willing to invest in the interaction on this topic. . On the one hand, the topic may be about something she is good at and interested in, such as: beauty, skin care, entertainment, gossip, pets, gourmet cakes, etc.
A large number of words means that the chat content is in line with her taste. She doesn’t care whether it is in line with your taste or not. She might be able to get angry with anyone she talks to about it.
2. Frequency of girls’ chat replies
Girls reply frequently, which plus the number of words in front of them is high 80% sure that he is interested in you. Think about why the response frequency is so fast? Does she have a lot of time by herself? Is she bored?
No, our most important time and energy. Whoever you say can spend a lot of time just proves one thing - you are far more important than other things. She is willing to pay more attention to you. If the reply to you always comes in seconds, or even within a few minutes, it proves that they are very interested in you.
This situation often occurs during the initial acquaintance stage, because she doesn’t know much about you when she first meets you, and it may just be your appearance that attracts her attention. But as the chat deepens and you get to know each other slowly, the attraction will gradually decrease.
Suppose, a girl has no interest in you from the beginning. A girl is not willing to reply at all. Even if she sees your message on her phone, she will not reply immediately. Don’t lie to yourself. You are not important to her at all.
Many brothers just like a girl and still hang around her every day. They worry about gains and losses if they don’t reply, and feel that if they lose a girl, they will lose the whole world. Then, I was bombarded with messages, asking the girl why she didn’t reply. This is exactly the wrong way to get along, and the result will only be that girls will think you are immature, and they will distance themselves further and further, and in the end they will even block you.
So what is the correct way to do it?
You know: Just because a girl doesn’t like you now, doesn’t mean she won’t like you in the future. Since she doesn't like you at first, just relax and throw your eggs into different baskets. There's no need for you to hang yourself from a tree. You can meet more girls, in other words be prepared for a protracted war.
For her, if you no longer pursue her repeatedly, she won’t feel the pressure from you and will be happy.I want to be friends with you and get along slowly. For you, you also relax your mind and look for better people, which reduces your sense of need.
Since she doesn’t want to chat with you, you don’t have to talk to her every day. Regardless of whether you like her or not, when we interact with anyone, we all follow one principle:
This is called the mirror principle - you should treat her how she treats you. How often does it take for her to reply to you, and how often does it take for you to reply to her, even longer than the time between for him. Because it means that the time you invest in her is less than the time she invests in you——) You are worth more than her.
Girls will not like people who are worth less than themselves, but will look up to and pursue those who are worth more than themselves.
You said, why don’t you reply after seeing the message? ——Yes, even if I see the message, I won’t reply. Think about whether a girl treats you like this. She won't read messages when she's not interested in you, and you don't need to reply to messages she sends. After a long time, you will find that as soon as you reply, she starts to reply instantly.
3. Girls’ participation in chat topics
There are many girls who are not unwilling to chat with you, but they don’t know how to chat at all. Or your reply makes it difficult for a girl to answer, which usually results in her ignoring you. For example: post emoticons and don’t reply if you don’t know what to reply.
If a girl is still willing to talk to you about topics in a field she is not familiar with, listen to what you tell her, and she is even willing to learn information she doesn’t like for you, that means she likes you and she is willing. Pay for you. That's why some people say: If a girl likes you, you don't have to think hard about the topic at all, she can chat with you all night.
It can also be seen from the topic participation rate whether a girl likes you or not.
In fact, even if you don’t like it, you don’t have to be too sad and blame yourself. No matter how handsome and perfect you are, you can't be liked by everyone. What you can do is make yourself more handsome, so that more girls will like you from the first impression and be willing to get to know you in depth.
